TW // Sewer slide triggers / Trauma(s)

This is my personal cues / triggers / DNi carrd with things that negatively impact me. I know they seem ridiculous to you but these things give me bad spirals / relapses. Please be mindful.
Anyone who fails to meet these gets soft-blocked.

"I'm [negative thing]" - I hate when people call themselves negative things. I get you have self esteem issues but it reminds me of how I used to act & I can't do that again.
Extras: "I'm gonna kms" (clarify when it's a joke beforehand)

"Idiot" / "r3tard" / "stupid" / ect. - I hate receiving insults on my own intelligence. Just because I'm Autistic or I do things you don't like, doesn't mean you can call me that.
Extras: 'IQ Test(s)' or "work smarter, not harder."

"Shut up" / "yapyapyap" - As a kid growing up AuDHD-C, I'd dominate conversations just to talk about my interests. Unfortunately, it gets people annoyed / upset that they tell me to be quiet.
Say instead: either go deafen / tell me- "brb."
Extras: yelling / all caps or "good riddance"

Showering / hygiene - I get we're supposed to shower every day for 1hr max but I get ashamed that I can't do these things regularly because of my disabilities (AuDHD-C) making it harder. Don't poke fun at me for it, I'm trying my best.
Say instead: in dms, "have you showered today?" The same equivalent to reminding someone to eat

Saying "do you want me to leave?" or anything along those lines - I dislike when someone asks that because my brain believes you're suggesting it.
for example, suggesting to leave.
Say instead: "what do you think will happen?" and then remind me that it's not happening right now.

Feminine Terms - I am a demiboy, meaning that I am under the nonbinary umbrella. I have gender dysphoria & I get self conscious about my looks & voice. Do NOT refer to me with feminine terms.
Extras: This includes it/it's, My pronoun page

Soft-blocking without explanation - Being Autistic means that I crave predictability in order to function. I get really upset when people disappear so cut ties on a good note.
Extras: If I get accused of anything, let me give my side of the story & THEN decide to cut me off or not.

Getting struggled twted / ratio'd - Because I'm AuDHD-C, it comes with RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria). I hate feeling like people are making fun of me. Especially when people like @inkstruggletwts have- "a collection of dumb Splatoon fans" in their bio. It's stressful.

Getting mad / upset with me - I despise when people get frustrated with me. I get it's out of our control but if you can, go to an area where you can't hurt me, let out your anger there, & then come back when you've calmed down.